By Said Boudabbouz
This article talks about a bad wedding custom, in Morocco, that is growing worse, step by step, respecting neither the so-called human rights nor relating to any logical rule.
Did you know how the wedding should be to make people healthy?
Actually it can be healthy, not for only Bride and Bridegroom, but rather for the people around as well, especially those living next to the house where the marriage ceremony takes place. If you didn’t already know, come with me just a moment to show you one fantastic example that I think is worthy to be known, and it is your opportunity to know some important things about Moroccan traditions, whether you want to travel therein or you just interest in more knowledges.
When the sun gets hotter, in a Moroccan city, there is a traditional season that we could call “wedding show time”. By the beginning of summer you should be ready to escape from the city to a safe town; where you’d better be alone and it may be much safer, for you, than what the city is going to offer you. That’s what you have to do firstly if you want to be in a quiet place and get some sleep, it would be your only chance to avoid the huge noise coming towards you. For it is very hard to undergo the noising state the city gets involved in during this glorifying season. The noise of drum and various kinds of traditional-and non traditional-music doesn’t start until it is midnight. Sometimes after midnight, when you supposed to be drowned in your very enjoying sleep from which you have to stand up and immediately think of a plan to run away, from the noise, and get a calm place to complete your sleep. Otherwise you’re obligated to get part in the neighbouring marriage ceremony in spite of you. And if you try to complain or protest, be sure that no body would understand your words, no one could comprehend your real problem. The people around have acclimatized to the curse even if it’s against all but Ms Bride and Mr Bridegroom. If you tell them ‘please, nice people, I’m so tired , I should get some sleep, for I have much work to do in the morning’ the answer probably will be ‘please, nice man, we need so much music tonight because we are getting married’. The worst thing is that if you don’t accept their justification they’d tell you ‘we are authorized by local authority, man! And if you have more metaphoric sentences to show out, you can go to the local authority’ any way you can’t have any break to get some sleep. Then you’d realize that you can’t stand against this kind of social harm, can’t stand against this traditional illness even if you’re absolutely right. The worst point that I can’t understand is why there’d not be some required rules considering the situation of the majority in this issue? Why the majority is always underestimated, despised and rejected even in such case? Has that any relation with totally-blind-individualism well rooted in our political culture? I’m sorry, for I think the answer is yes. If you live in Morocco, you’ll have no difficulties to notice this political chronic sickness. Actually this good country always, and in every part of the life; socially, politically and economically, intends to reject the so-called majority. The consequence, at least in this topic, is that if Mr A wants to get married, Mr B should get harmed. If Mr A wants to fuck, the whole other letters should be fucked around him before his beautiful bride, beginning with Mr B to Mr Z. furthermore, the wedding I’m taking about is not the one where people meet each other and feel happy in the normal music atmosphere, no! The healthy wedding I’m talking about makes me sure that it’s against even its people. I’m talking about the healthy wedding in which gigantic loudspeakers horribly multiplying the music sound strength are used in order to be really healthy. The matter of fact I’m talking about the real healthy wedding not faked one. I don’t think any other nation does the same we do. Yes, there perhaps may be other nation elsewhere has the same fantastic wedding traditions, but I don’t know this nation up to now. Many ill-people I know, in our perfect city, say that their illness got seriously increased because of this kind of marriage ceremony. The music sound gets stronger in the way that is not only difficult to sleep, but rather, sometimes, difficult to wake up too! Especially if you live next to the marring guys’ house! The only solution for people who can’t hold out against such huge sound is to get out from the chosen area before the wedding starts. As for poor ill people, who can’t be ready to withdraw from their houses whenever it is the show time, I think it’s extremely healthy for them to stay where they are. For it is really healthy, for them, to the point they have no other choice than getting immediately cured in spite of their stubborn illness!
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